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How Therapy Supports Grief Healing
Grief is not linear. It doesn’t follow rules, timelines, or tidy stages. It arrives like a…
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What Does It Mean to Own Your Pleasure?
Pleasure is yours to define, explore and embody. Owning it means unlearning inherited shame, reclaiming desire,…
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Why Safety is the Sexiest Thing of All
We rarely talk about safety as erotic — yet it’s the soil desire grows from. When…
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The Erotic Mind: How Neuroscience Shapes Desire
Desire begins in the brain long before the body. How we process safety, novelty and connection…
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Beyond Vanilla: Why Desire Thrives on Exploration
Desire is most alive when it’s curious. Moving beyond rigid ideas of ‘normal’ and exploring with…
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Rewriting the Rules of Pleasure: Breaking Free from Sexual Conditioning
We inherit unspoken rules about pleasure from culture, family, religion and media. Rewriting them — choosing…
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I’m Tereasa Trevor — a psychotherapist, educator and sexologist.
I write here about relationships, intimacy and sexuality, grief and loss, and the long road of reproduction and surrogacy.
Tereasa Trevor 